If you’ve been around long enough, I am willing to bet you’ve found yourself in this situation. You’re talking to and texting this guy on the regular, but you’re not particularly sure if he is flirting with you or if it’s just in his nature to be overly friendly. And it keeps gnawing at the back of your mind whether or not he wants to take things to the next level. Does any of this ring a bell yet?

Guys Can Be Easy to Read, Right?

At times, guys may find it difficult to admit that they want to get to third base and the bliss that awaits thereafter. Lucky for you, there are some signs to look out for, even if he doesn’t openly confess it. And as they say, men can be pretty easy to read, no? The following are some of the most unmistakable signs he wants you badly sexually.

1. He Finds Any Excuse to Subtly Touch You

If a guy you’re frequently spending time with is into you, he’ll find all sorts of silly excuses to touch you. Look out for frequent brushes against your arms, face, shoulder, and hair. If you happen to hang out in a group, you’ll find that his seat is always next to yours. Coincidence much? It’s all part of his plan!

His desire for you prompts him to almost always seek physical proximity, and as I’m writing this, I’m willing to bet that things are starting to take focus on that one guy. Yes, the one you’ve just thought about! And as you smile at the thought of him, why don’t you text him to let him know he crossed your mind? While you’re at it, hold that thought. We’ll get back to texting in a few, as I intend to also delve into signs he wants you badly sexually through text.

2. Mr. Man Wants to Spend a Lot of Time With You

A man who is sexually attracted to you will want to spend as much time with you as he can. He’ll ask you out for coffee, the movies, a walk in the park, anything. He’ll even move his schedule around to make time, and what’s sexier than a man who has you at the top of his priority list?

While you all are together, you’ll notice that he always maintains eye contact and leans forward when talking to you. At times, it gets so intense that you can feel the sexual tension, no?

Regular dates and the frequent hanging out may, although not always, indicate that this guy is after more than just buttering the biscuit. He could be after a lasting relationship and is slowly piecing up if the two of you would make the perfect match. But even if he’s not after a long-term kind of thing and you’re agreeable to that, make that hay while the sun shines, sister! (If you know what I mean, wink).

3. He Frequently Drops Subtle (Or Not-So-Subtle) Hints

Remember how I said I’d get back to texting? We’re in the endgame now (but only on matters of texting), and yes, that’s a Tony Stark/Dr. Strange reference. As you may or may not have realized, a man who’s physically attracted to you will reply to your texts faster than you can say, “Jack Robinson.”

And when these texts are flying back and forth, you’ll notice sexual innuendos in the conversation. The innuendos are the subtle hints, but you may as well find a guy who hits the nail on the head.

Trust me when I tell you that he’ll always find an angle to steer the conversation towards the naughty side. Before you know it, you’ll find yourselves sharing sexual fantasies, sexting, sending nudes, and exploring other raunchy topics. I don’t have to say it, but all these are signs he wants you badly sexually through text, and you’ll soon find yourself longing for him as well.

4. The Gentleman Throws Compliments Around Like Confetti

Humor me. Off the top of your head, name someone who’s always throwing compliments your way. If there’s a guy whose name has popped up like a light bulb in your head, I’ve got news for you, honey: he wants to bump uglies.

He notices your smile, pretty eyes, trendy sense of fashion, voice, anything. And after he does, he never passes up an opportunity to say something about it. These meaningful compliments will have him charming his way to your heart, especially if they are sincere and specific to your attributes. Before you know it, it’s all bam-bam in the ham.

5. He’s Fast to Rise to the Occasion

Do you almost always notice a you-know-where bulge whenever you’re around him? That’s his Lil’ Billy announcing himself! And what better evidence of a guy wanting to bed you is there than a rock-solid hard-on?

Anything you do when around him is enough to have him going full throttle in no time, be it a gentle hug, a tug on his arm, or a brush of his cheek. If you want him too and have been waiting for the opportune moment, the ball is in your court the moment you notice the man of steel shining in all his glory, albeit behind the curtain.

6. The Ever So Kind Fellow Sends You That Netflix and Chill Invitation

I’m pretty sure you’ve seen the Netflix and chill memes all over the internet. They are that popular because they are true, so you better know what’s up once a guy invites you for a binge-watching night at his place. There’ll be a marathon happening, alright, but it certainly won’t be episode after episode of your favorite show. Instead, it’ll be rounds and rounds of you know what!

And if you didn’t already know, the Netflix and chill invitation has a twin sister, going by the name of homemade dinner at his place. This isn’t a new one also, is it? Both moves seek to get you alone with him behind closed doors, hoping for a blissful night of passion.

I know how exciting these invitations can be, especially when they are from that one guy. If you receive one, be sure to show up and rock his night! (You’ve been looking forward to it, I know. I’m awesome like that.)

7. He Texts You Late Into the Night

Texts, again? Hell yes! You may have been chatting all day with this guy, but late-night texts are where it’s at. Without a doubt, texting a special someone late into the night creates a sense of intimacy and establishes a private connection. It also shows that you’re on the guy’s mind as he goes to bed and that he probably wishes you were right by his side. If this isn’t sexual attraction, what is?

If you’ve been sending late-night texts for a minute, they’ll soon graduate to video calls. Call this taking things to the next level, and it won’t be long until you all are in each other’s arms, slutting each other out.

8. The Guy Ogles Over That Cleavage

If you pack a nice rack, a guy who’s sexually attracted to you will find it difficult to keep his eyes off your cleave. Do you want to guess what’s going through his mind when he’s giving you that erotic look? Of course, he wants more than just to look at your assets!

Speaking of assets, you’ll also find that a guy who hates to see you go but loves to watch you leave. Any takers? Food for thought, my people! You leave him obsessing and fantasizing over you, so don’t be surprised to find texts confirming the same flooding your inbox shortly after you’re gone.

9. He Hates to See You Go

Now that I have mentioned it in passing, how about I do this entry justice? A guy who wants you will always want to have you around, even after already spending loads of time together. It could have been a sleepover, a date, coffee, anything. He lingers when you have to take your leave, coming up with excuse after excuse to keep you with him for a little longer.

If you are yet to get anywhere, he might be hoping to finally get that first kiss. If you’re already doing the nasty, and you’re at a private place, he may want to quickly bust a nut before you’re on your way. Be a darling and don’t leave him high and dry, will you? And if you’re with me, you know there’s nothing hotter than when a guy wants you over and over again. You’ve got a game, girl!

10. The Guy Creates a Playlist and Dedicates It to You

When a guy wants you bad, every romantic song he hears reminds him of you. He might send you one or two, but the songs will keep ringing in his head until he comes up with a playlist dedicated to you. Isn’t that sweet?

For your part, what you need to do is pay close attention to the lyrics. The words in these songs contain everything this guy has been looking forward to telling you, and he’s found the perfect avenue for it.

Do you want to know how to score some points of your own? Once you’ve learned these lyrics by heart, reference them in everyday conversation and when you guys are texting. In addition to confirming that you listened to and loved the songs in the playlist, you’ll have him wanting you more on account of showing him that you’re invested as well.

11. Mr. Nice Guy Notices All the Tiny Details About You

When a man finds you physically attractive, he tends to become very observant. He’ll be the first to notice the glow from that secret skin care program you’ve got going on, and so will he be the first to compliment your new hairstyle.

He’ll notice it when you wear a new perfume or change your shade of lipstick. He also probably knows about that mole you conceal using makeup, but guess what? It is no deterrent. He wants you, and he wants you just the way you are.

12. You’re Always in His Dreams

If a guy you’ve been talking to starts sharing that you’re always in his dreams, alarm bells that the fellow is into you should start ringing immediately. Soon enough, the once innocent escapades in Dream’s world (and I mean The Sandman) graduate into raunchy events that happen time and again.

The guy has been thinking about you so much that you’ve slipped into his dreams, clear proof that he can’t keep his mind off you. And if he’s flirtatious enough, he’ll recognize this as his cue to update that playlist he sent you with Aerosmith’s I Don’t Want to Miss a Thing, one of my favorite songs of all time. 13. The Poor Bloke Loses Himself in Your Eyes There’s maintaining eye contact, and then there’s completely losing himself in your eyes when he’s with you. More often than not, this happens when dirty thoughts run through his mind, and he can’t help but overly indulge. You’ve seen those what’s on your mind dirty memes, haven’t you? Exactly. 14. Mr. Raunchy Buys You Suggestive Gifts If you thought Mr. Nice Guy bought you that sexy lingerie because of how much you appreciate a bright-colored lace bra, I’ve got news for you! Driving the gentleman’s gesture were entirely selfish reasons, chief among them being that he wants to see you looking hot and steamy in the lingerie, right before he strips you off of them. He’s telling you that you’d pull the look off and turn him on more than you’d ever know. Indulge this young lad then, will you? You know you want to. 15. The Guy Mirrors Your Body Language  If that one guy has been playing coy, his body language will be his undoing. The human body subconsciously mirrors the body language of a person you’re into, so it shouldn’t take you that long to out him. All you need to do is observe how he reacts when you do something when the both of you are hanging out. If you’re having a drink, he’ll sip his as soon as you sip yours. Sit facing right, and he’ll do the same. Lean forward, same result. What other sign are you looking for? 16. The Gentleman Ups His Fashion Game to Impress You Long before he started thinking of getting raunchy, Mr. Nice Guy paid no attention to his dress code. Unironed shirt? No biggie. Dilapidated sneakers? Who cares. Nowadays, though, and especially when he knows you’ll be around, even if not specifically for him, he’s going to try to give David Beckham a run for his money and make sure you notice it. Best believe it, he’s spending hours behind the mirror before leaving his house, dreaming of all the compliments he’d want you to send his way. And why would he care? The answer’s simple. He wants you. 17. He Shows You off to His Friends If you have already met this guy’s friends, he not only wants you physically, but he’s in it for a deeper emotional connection. Guys don’t introduce every girl to their male friends, so best believe you’re a special someone if he’s showing you off. Subconsciously, he’s projecting that he’s an alpha male for bagging a baddie like you, and will get off the buzz your spark will create within his gang. They may not admit it, but guys love it when their male friends approve of their choice of a girl. 18. His Emojis Are Suggestive to the Core Back to texting, I want you to do a little something for me. Open that guy’s chat on your phone. What kind of emojis and stickers does he send you? I’m willing to bet there are lots of eggplants in there, as well as peaches, winks, tongue, and water droplets. You get the idea. The sexual connotations these emojis bring are a playful avenue of expressing sexual desire and generating an intimate tone within the conversation. The message is home, baby girl, do something about it! 19. He’s a Tad Jealous of Your Male Friends Girls, do you agree that it feels good when your man gets a little bit jealous? It shows that despite his masculine energy, he’s still human. It also shows that he wants you all to himself.  If you notice that hint of jealousy when you’re just about to go hang out with your male friends, reassure him and remind him that you’re all his. A quickie on your way out will reaffirm his position, and it’ll be a win-win for both of you. 20. His Voice Changes to a Deep One When He’s Alone With You While you may think his deep voice is intentional, trust me, it’s not! His voice legitimately becomes heavy when he’s trying to admit that he wants you, getting the way of his admittance that he has all these crazy, awesome feelings for you. 21. Mr. Right Is Available Whenever You Need Him This guy attends to your every need, lends you a listening ear, and comes through for you no matter what. He’s trying to convey that he wants you both sexually and emotionally, and soon enough, that shoulder to cry on may just become one you place your legs on. Wrapping Up As we agreed in the beginning, guys can be pretty easy to read. At the same time, though, there may be girls out there who don’t know what to look for to ascertain if a guy wants them or not. With this list, should be sent to you Aerosmith’s, one of my favorite songs of all time.

13. The Poor Bloke Loses Himself in Your Eyes

There’s maintaining eye contact, and then there’s completely losing himself in your eyes when he’s with you. More often than not, this happens when dirty thoughts run through his mind, and he can’t help but overly indulge. You’ve seen those what’s on your mind dirty memes, haven’t you? Exactly.

14. Mr. Raunchy Buys You Suggestive Gifts

If you thought Mr. Nice Guy bought you that sexy lingerie because of how much you appreciate a bright-colored lace bra, I’ve got news for you! Driving the gentleman’s gesture were entirely selfish reasons, chief among them being that he wants to see you looking hot and steamy in the lingerie, right before he strips you off of them.

He’s telling you that you’d pull the look off and turn him on more than you’d ever know. Indulge this young lad then, will you? You know you want to. signs he wants you badly sexually through text

15. The Guy Mirrors Your Body Language

If that one guy has been playing coy, his body language will be his undoing. The human body subconsciously mirrors the body language of a person you’re into, so it shouldn’t take you that long to out him.

All you need to do is observe how he reacts when you do something when the both of you are hanging out. If you’re having a drink, he’ll sip his as soon as you sip yours. Sit facing right, and he’ll do the same. Lean forward, same result. What other sign are you looking for?

16. The Gentleman Ups His Fashion Game to Impress You

Long before he started thinking of getting raunchy, Mr. Nice Guy paid no attention to his dress code. Unironed shirt? No biggie. Dilapidated sneakers? Who cares. Nowadays, though, and especially when he knows you’ll be around, even if not specifically for him, he’s going to try to give David Beckham a run for his money and make sure you notice it.

Best believe it, he’s spending hours behind the mirror before leaving his house, dreaming of all the compliments he’d want you to send his way. And why would he care? The answer’s simple. He wants you.

17. He Shows You off to His Friends

If you have already met this guy’s friends, he not only wants you physically, but he’s in it for a deeper emotional connection. Guys don’t introduce every girl to their male friends, so best believe you’re a special someone if he’s showing you off.

Subconsciously, he’s projecting that he’s an alpha male for bagging a baddie like you, and will get off the buzz your spark will create within his gang. They may not admit it, but guys love it when their male friends approve of their choice of a girl.

18. His Emojis Are Suggestive to the Core

Back to texting, I want you to do a little something for me. Open that guy’s chat on your phone. What kind of emojis and stickers does he send you? I’m willing to bet there are lots of eggplants in there, as well as peaches, winks, tongue, and water droplets. You get the idea.

The sexual connotations these emojis bring are a playful avenue of expressing sexual desire and generating an intimate tone within the conversation. The message is home, baby girl, do something about it!

19. He’s a Tad Jealous of Your Male Friends

Girls, do you agree that it feels good when your man gets a little bit jealous? It shows that despite his masculine energy, he’s still human. It also shows that he wants you all to himself.

If you notice that hint of jealousy when you’re just about to go hang out with your male friends, reassure him and remind him that you’re all his. A quickie on your way out will reaffirm his position, and it’ll be a win-win for both of you.

20. His Voice Changes to a Deep One When He’s Alone With You

While you may think his deep voice is intentional, trust me, it’s not! His voice legitimately becomes heavy when he’s trying to admit that he wants you, getting the way of his admittance that he has all these crazy, awesome feelings for you.

21. Mr. Right Is Available Whenever You Need Him

This guy attends to your every need, lends you a listening ear, and comes through for you no matter what. He’s trying to convey that he wants you both sexually and emotionally, and soon enough, that shoulder to cry on may just become one you place your legs on.

Wrapping Up

As we agreed in the beginning, guys can be pretty easy to read. At the same time, though, there may be girls out there who don’t know what to look for to ascertain if a guy wants them or not. With this list, it should now be a piece of cake, no?